He’s going to let you down

We may have this fairytale image of what it will look like when our husbands take care of our needs.

It’ll be perfect. It’ll look exactly how we want it to look.

And I think it’s important to have that vision and dream. Every woman should want to feel totally taken care of and pampered.

But the reality is… you’re married to a human.

And he’s going to let you down.

You’re going to be disappointed.

The question isn’t whether that will happen. It’s whether you can give yourself the space to feel that disappointment.

To feel the grief. To feel the pain of being married to a human being who is going to let you down sometimes.

And you have endless needs. Hashem put endless ways in the world for those needs to get met. But still, sometimes certain needs are not going to get met all the time.

Can you hold both? The dream of being completely taken care of AND the reality that he’ll disappoint you sometimes?

Can you let yourself feel the disappointment without making it mean something’s wrong with you / him / your marriage?

Supporting your sensitivity,
Rena

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